This Ends With Me
In This Ends With Me, you’ll step into the raw, unfiltered journey of a man who was once shackled by lust, pornography, and sexual addiction-and who emerged not only free, but dangerous to the kingdom of darkness.
This Ends With Me by Jeremy Gaston
Intro
THE WAR YOU WERE BORN TO WIN
I spent half of my life bound to lust.
It was more than just temptation—I was enslaved to it.
Pornography wasn’t just a problem I dabbled in occasionally. It was my master.
I was caught in a cycle of self-gratification, secrecy and shame that left me emotionally hollow and spiritually distant.
I tried to fight it on my own, tried to throw it away, pray it away, hide it away. But every attempt felt like a short-lived victory followed by deeper despair.
For over two decades, masturbation was my escape. Porn was my comfort. And lust… it was the lens through which I viewed people, situations, even my own identity. And the worst part? I knew it was wrong. I knew it was killing me. But I didn’t know how to be free.
Then one day, everything changed.
2021 marked the year I stood up and said, This ends with me.
Not with my children. Not with my grandchildren. Not with another generation of men shackled in silence. The line of compromise, addiction, and defeat would stop with me.
It wasn’t an easy journey. It was war. Still is.
I had to learn how to fight—not just emotionally, but spiritually. I had to renovate my thinking, confront the deep wounds I was medicating with lust, and take hold of the weapons God had given me. I had to stay vulnerable—especially with my wife. I learned to confess when I even sensed the enemy on the horizon. I didn’t wait for the attack—I started building a fortress before the arrows ever flew.
Now, I live free. Not perfect, but free. And vigilant.
I wrote this book because I know I’m not alone. I know there are men—billions of them—just like I was. Tired. Bound. Isolated. Confused. Men who love God but feel like they’re losing a battle they’re ashamed to talk about.
You need to know: You are not weak. You are not disqualified. You are not alone.
You were born for this fight. You were born to win this war.
Not just for your sake—but for your family, your children, your community, and your bloodline. You were born to break chains your father never could. You were born to raise up sons who will never bow to the same idols that once held you hostage.
This book is not a devotional. It’s a battle plan.
Each chapter will equip you with the understanding, awareness, and spiritual weapons you need to overcome pornography, lust, masturbation, and every lie that has kept you stuck. More than that, it will give you a vision—a holy mission—to step into your role as a warrior in God’s kingdom.
You are not just fighting for freedom.
You are securing territory.
You are defending a legacy.
You are taking back what hell tried to steal.
If you’re ready to say “This ends with me,” then you’re in the right place.
Let’s go to war.
Excerpted from This Ends With Me: How To Wage Ware On Lust, Pornography & Other Addictions by Jeremy Gaston. Copyright © 2025 by Jeremy Gaston. All rights reserved. No part of this excerpt may be reproduced or reprinted without permission in writing from the publisher.
This Ends With Me
In This Ends With Me, you’ll step into the raw, unfiltered journey of a man who was once shackled by lust, pornography, and sexual addiction-and who emerged not only free, but dangerous to the kingdom of darkness.
This Ends With Me by Jeremy Gaston
Intro
THE WAR YOU WERE BORN TO WIN
I spent half of my life bound to lust.
It was more than just temptation—I was enslaved to it.
Pornography wasn’t just a problem I dabbled in occasionally. It was my master.
I was caught in a cycle of self-gratification, secrecy and shame that left me emotionally hollow and spiritually distant.
I tried to fight it on my own, tried to throw it away, pray it away, hide it away. But every attempt felt like a short-lived victory followed by deeper despair.
For over two decades, masturbation was my escape. Porn was my comfort. And lust… it was the lens through which I viewed people, situations, even my own identity. And the worst part? I knew it was wrong. I knew it was killing me. But I didn’t know how to be free.
Then one day, everything changed.
2021 marked the year I stood up and said, This ends with me.
Not with my children. Not with my grandchildren. Not with another generation of men shackled in silence. The line of compromise, addiction, and defeat would stop with me.
It wasn’t an easy journey. It was war. Still is.
I had to learn how to fight—not just emotionally, but spiritually. I had to renovate my thinking, confront the deep wounds I was medicating with lust, and take hold of the weapons God had given me. I had to stay vulnerable—especially with my wife. I learned to confess when I even sensed the enemy on the horizon. I didn’t wait for the attack—I started building a fortress before the arrows ever flew.
Now, I live free. Not perfect, but free. And vigilant.
I wrote this book because I know I’m not alone. I know there are men—billions of them—just like I was. Tired. Bound. Isolated. Confused. Men who love God but feel like they’re losing a battle they’re ashamed to talk about.
You need to know: You are not weak. You are not disqualified. You are not alone.
You were born for this fight. You were born to win this war.
Not just for your sake—but for your family, your children, your community, and your bloodline. You were born to break chains your father never could. You were born to raise up sons who will never bow to the same idols that once held you hostage.
This book is not a devotional. It’s a battle plan.
Each chapter will equip you with the understanding, awareness, and spiritual weapons you need to overcome pornography, lust, masturbation, and every lie that has kept you stuck. More than that, it will give you a vision—a holy mission—to step into your role as a warrior in God’s kingdom.
You are not just fighting for freedom.
You are securing territory.
You are defending a legacy.
You are taking back what hell tried to steal.
If you’re ready to say “This ends with me,” then you’re in the right place.
Let’s go to war.
Excerpted from This Ends With Me: How To Wage Ware On Lust, Pornography & Other Addictions by Jeremy Gaston. Copyright © 2025 by Jeremy Gaston. All rights reserved. No part of this excerpt may be reproduced or reprinted without permission in writing from the publisher.
